There isn’t really such a thing as having an objectively good personality. Everyone likes different types of people. The key is building a personality that you can feel proud of and confident in. You want a personality that will attract the type of people that you like. Developing your personality will take time and consistent effort, just like making any other major lifestyle change. You will need to form new beliefs over time, and put those beliefs into action until they become habits. Wactch video.